There are some things we always return to—our comfort things. For me, books are a big part of that. There are a few books I revisit at least once a year, not just because I enjoy them, but because I learn something new every time I read them. They’ve shaped the way I see the world, challenged my thinking, and in some ways, changed my life. One of the great things about adulting is the self-awareness that comes with it—the ability to recognize when you need help, when you need growth, or when you simply want to expand your knowledge. That’s why I often buy these books as gifts for others. Not because I think they’re lacking anything (breathe), but because I genuinely believe they offer something valuable—whether it’s a fresh perspective or a lesson you didn’t even realize you needed.
This book challenges the idea of conventional positivity and encourages readers to embrace life’s struggles and limitations. Manson argues that we need to be selective about what we give a f*ck about—focusing only on what truly matters. He emphasizes accepting pain, taking responsibility for our lives, and finding meaning in adversity.
It’s a no-nonsense guide to living a more grounded and fulfilling life. And honestly? It’s one of my go-to gifts for friends.
Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, this book outlines four principles for personal freedom and a happier life:
These agreements sound simple, but incorporating them into your life is hard—especially when you’ve been doing things your own way for years. That’s why I love this book. It challenges you to shift your mindset and approach life differently.
A follow-up to The Subtle Art, this book explores hope in a chaotic world. Manson argues that modern society is dealing with a crisis of meaning, fueled by technology, consumerism, and emotional disconnection. Using philosophy and psychology, he examines how to cultivate hope and resilience in the face of adversity.
The book forces you to confront uncomfortable truths about the world—and yourself. It’s not a feel-good read, but it’s an important one.
This book is all about the power of small, consistent changes. Clear introduces the concept of “atomic habits”—tiny improvements that, over time, lead to big transformations. He breaks down habit formation into four laws:
Like The Four Agreements, this book is easy to understand but challenging to implement. Still, it’s worth the effort. Even small changes can have a massive impact on your life.
We all know what the Bible is. But have you ever actually sat down and read it cover to cover? Beyond the spiritual and moral teachings, the stories in the Bible are wild.
Of course, the lessons in the Old and New Testaments are important—the creation of the world, the covenant with Israel, and the life and teachings of Jesus. But some of these stories? Whew. They are not the same ones we heard in Sunday school.
Paul’s letters? Bars.
The laws in Leviticus? Intense.
Some of the lesser-known Old Testament stories? Straight-up shocking.
Every time I reread it, I come across something that has me yelling, “Wait, WHAT?!” I’m thinking about putting together a collection of some of the most unexpected Bible stories because trust me—you haven’t heard them all.
So, those are my top five books. The ones I return to time and time again. The ones that have shaped me, challenged me, and left a lasting impact. If you’re looking for a new book to dive into—or a gift for someone who loves a thought-provoking read—these are a great place to start.
What is your comfort reads?